Fall is here!  11 April 2013

The Ides of March, The March Hare, Frederick Marche, The Marche Sisters (in Little Women), March in time, March to the beat, March in step, We are Marching on to Glory, Grouch o Marx, On your Marks....  Get Set.... Go! and now MARCH is Going, Going, GONE

March 18   Dinner at Mikes to say good-bye to the Andersons who have been reassigned to the Durban Mission as Member-Leader Support missionaries stationed in Bethlehem.  We will miss them, but Bethlehem will be grateful for the support.

March  18-22  We used the week without workshops to plan and schedule training in Benoni  Stake and Tzaneen District.  So far we have been able to schedule workshops and training in 5 units in April and May and training in Bishop Welfare Councils in Pretoria and Bedfordview Stakes.

March 21 was a national Holiday.  I forget what for, but we took the day to attend an antique fair and sale at the Voortrekker Monument in Pretoria.  We went with the Kundsens, who are here with the assignment to collect the history of the church in Africa.  The Vortrekkers moved from the coastal area to this area in the 1830-40's.  There are as many controversies about this movement as there about the settlement of America and the native Americans.

It was like 300 hundred “garage sales” altogether under one roof.   Eating Thai food in Pretoria was a special Holiday treat.

March 22   We were blessed with the opportunity to attend the Sealing for Sivu and Pheladi.  President Wrench officiated and it was very spiritual.  They had family and friend support. Sivu (left) and his brother.

Pheladi was a bit late..........

An added bonus was the attendance of members Sivu knew on his mission in Zimbabwe who were in town to attend the endowment session of their son and nephew who has been called to serve a full time mission. 

My brother, Ken Patterson, served his mission here in 1966-68.  He met the Nield family in then Rhodesia, now Zimbabwe.  Reeve Nield was just a young girl then.  She remembers Elder Ken Patterson.  She is now a golf trainer for two golfers on the LGPA, Laurette Maritz from South Africa and Cecilie Lundgreen from Norway. 

Reeve's sister, Sharon, and her husband were here with their son who just happened to be going through the temple prior to his mission.  Sivu, as mentioned, also served in Zimbabwe.  He was an assistant to the mission president while on his mission, and was influential in this young man's decision to serve a mission.  It was nothing short of a miracle that the Nield family members were in the Johannesburg Temple on the same day as Sivu and Phelade were getting married.  The reunion was wonderful to see.

Reeve, Lolly and Cici offered a golf lesson to any who were interested.  Saturday, March, 23 we went to a training facility here in Johannesburg.  The Sister golfers do pro-am tournaments to raise money for a charity Eyes-4-Zimbabwe, a charity that offers sight giving cataract surgery. 

The golf Lesson

March 24    We had the opportunity to visit the Daveyton Ward, Benoni Stake, and speak in Sacrament Meeting.

You may remember Tirhani Ngomane.  She was a devotional speaker last September.  She told of how her mother taught her her to be self reliant.  She said nothing was for mahalo (Free).  She spoke of making peanut butter and doing laundry to save money to go on a mission after she joined the church.

She and her family of five children live in the Daveyton Ward.  Her husband serves as Bishop there.

Stake President Holmes was also in attendance.  He was sustained earlier replacing Jaques Von Reenen. He bore a strong testimony and shared the conversion of his family to the Gospel when he was 17 years old.  It was interesting that his brother in law from California was serving a mission in Johannesburg.  The brother in law’s patriarchal blessing stated he would meet his wife on his mission.  The missionaries were teaching President Holmes’ older sister.  

After the teaching experience the missionary went to the Mission President and said:  “I have found my wife.  He shared his patriarchal blessing and the mission president let him propose to the older sister while accompanied by his companion.   She must have had the same inspiration because she accepted the proposal.  He was immediately transferred.  She was baptized.  After his mission he returned to California and then came back to South Africa and they were married and moved to California for 3 years.  The couple then returned to South Africa and were instrumental in the conversion of the entire Holmes Family which has included 3 stake presidents.  Leon Holmes is now serving as a mission president in Africa.

March  25    We reviewed and compiled a business plan on photography for Rousse and worked on a business plan for the selling and leasing of mining and crushing equipment  for Sibusiso from Birch Acres Branch.  It is helpful that I know how to type!!!!

March 26- 28   We taught 6 people in Career Workshop, a bright, intelligent group.  5 of the participants were non members and we were able to give them Books of Mormon.

March 29   This day is another Public Holiday where the Employment Resource Center was closed.  We took the opportunity to walk to the Joburg Zoo.  (good exercise and lots of interesting animals)


Flamingos sleep standing up, and on one leg.  This one has his eye open, I don't know if they can shut them or not.....

This would make a good balance beam move in gymnastics!!

We watched this little guy try to balance.  He's still learning.

We have seen Birds of Paradise every month since we came here.





That evening the Employment Resource Team including the Tshabalala Family had a movie night at the office where we watched the animated family comedy:  Hotel Transylvania.  Funny movie.  Good Pizza.  Great time with the children..........

March 30  We visited the Easter  Craft Fair at Irene’s Market in Centurion.  Interesting with many people, we distributed some pass along cards.   There was one kiosk with cute swings made of tires.

Cute swings, but the “gentleman” said only people on “acid” could believe the Book of Mormon.  He invited us to take our %#&* and have a "nice" day. Needless to say, he was not a golden contact.  Not even a polite one at that....... but the swings were a cute idea!

In the afternoon we visited the Tembisa Orphanage with the Larsen Family. 

Their daughter and husband and 5 children were visiting from Singapore and they provided lunch and fun games for the children.  

What a fun time.  painting fingernails, getting balls out of trees with a mop, jumping rope, eating hot dogs, and skittles.....  the whole neighborhood joined in.

Mama had taken the day off and went to Mamelodi to visit her mother who is not very well.  Gladness, Mama's daughter in law, was with the children.  Also Simphewe.

This is Mama's Granddaughter.  The Skittles are a real treat! Her mother is Gladness.

Every time we visit the orphanage we are impressed with the great work Mama is doing caring for these needy children and we are glad to add support, both temporal and spiritual.





There is a new building at the orphanage.  It is a library!

There is also new flooring in the room where the children eat.

March 31  (Easter Sunday)  We visited the 
Springs Ward, Benoni Stake, and were warmly welcomed. 

This is Sister has been a member since 1955.  She is widowed now, her husband was the bishop of Springs Ward and they went on a senior mission before he passed away.


We enjoyed the combined Relief Society / Priesthood meeting where President Uchtdorf’s priesthood session talk was reviewed and used as a basis for more effective ministering as Home Teachers and Visiting Teachers.   

We had the opportunity to speak one on one with Bishop Braganca, who has been called as 2nd counselor in the Stake Presidency, about specific employment needs and look forward to returning to speak or teach a workshop.   In Sacrament Meeting, the Bishop and his counselor spoke on the Resurrection and Atonement.  We testify of the singular importance of this unselfish act the Savior performed for all mankind.   That evening we had an Easter Dinner of lamb and ham with the other Senior Missionaries in Dukes Court. 

Next Entry is our Fantastic trip to Victoria Falls!!!  Stay Tuned.

4 March 2013 

March 4-8   We taught a Self Employment Workshop in the Employment Resource Center.  We are finding more and more people taking the challenge to draft business plans including the financial projections needed to determine the feasibility of the proposed business.  This is Fiona Nxumalo, who took the self employment class.  She is setting up an on line business in clothing.

March 6  Ward Council Training in Kempton Park Ward.  This is a delightful ward, the training session was very enjoyable.  They don't even have bars on the windows of the church.......  A locked gate and high fence into the parking area, but they are the only ward or branch building we know of with no bars on the windows.

March 8   We served in the Temple from 2 pm to 8 pm.  Each time we serve we learn new things and appreciate the opportunity to help patrons worship and serve our brothers and sisters beyond the veil.

March 10   We had the opportunity to attend Birch Acres Branch:  we trained in Branch Council, spoke in Sacrament Meeting on Self Reliance, played the music and taught the youth about critical choices needed to be made from age 12 to 32, the critical “score”.  We also spoke with the new Branch Employment Specialist, Noleen  Dube, about her calling. 

As we were waiting for Sacrament meeting to start, one of the branch presidency and his wife came in carrying two little girls , the same size and dressed in pink,  hummmm twins, we thought.  Then the Branch Presidency member set his little girl down, and walked out of the building.  A couple of minutes later, he came in carrying another little girl in pink.....TRIPLETS...the memories came flooding back.  One of the little girls even sat on the Branch President's wife's lap.  Reminded me of Clark's Grandma, Venice Bowen,  who used to hold him on her lap during Sacrament meeting when we lived in Hibbard.

March  11-13 We taught  a Career Workshop in the Employment Resource Center.  We have had the opportunity to see 2 of these participants receive promising  job interviews.  We have also been able to help several revise their CV’s  and other job related materials.

March 13    Recital day for the younger piano students.  

(Notice Sister Roberts in the Center Back, blue shirt She is an exceptional pianist.  They were in Joburg and then were transferred to Cape Town.  While here they purchased a piano and then had it moved with them to Cape Town. They are headed home the first week of April.  She is giving the piano to the Tshabalala family. We will have it moved from Cape Town.)

Mazzy played Book of Mormon Stories and a C Major 5 Finger Scale and I chord. 

Khumo played There is a Green Hill Far Away and In Humility Our Savior.  

Minenhle played Old MacDonald Had A Farm, and As I Have Loved You. 

Ntando played C Major 5 Finger Scale and I chord and Book of Mormon Stories.  

Dominic played as well!!

Wonderful experience!  Thanks KIDS

March 14  We attended a Business Expo at the Gallagher Convention Center.  The morning speakers were internationally known. 

We heard some excellent presentations on:

1.  Enduring in Small Business:  overcoming fear of failure; working at what you love, etc.  

2.  Sales and Marketing: 

A. Love your work and product  

B.. Mark your territory everyday

      (get out of the way,

       get on his side, 

       give him what he wants) 

C.  Benefits vs. Features 

D. Word of mouth is best place to find new customers. 

E.  Biggest single secret:  ask and ye shall receive 

3.  Social Media Advertising is here to stay.   (Just like the scriptures we need to apply to our individual situations)

We also had a lesson in South African lines.  The line to enter the Expo was about 1.5 blocks long.

Thursday afternoon we had a visit to the Center from Sharon Eubank.  She is the daughter of the former KSL weatherman, Mark Eubank.  She is the head of LDS Charities.  Sister Eubank recently represented the church at the UN.  Ten years ago, she set up the Employment Resource Center here in Joburg and hired Vivien as the manager.  She is very dynamic.  She was here for a training seminar for the humanitarian efforts in this area.  We had a wonderful visit with her.

March 15  (Dad) Went with Elder Rose and golfed at 6:30 am at Park View, beautiful course and good exercise.  Elder Rose has golfed A LOT in his lifetime.  A caddie was required for the course, and we rented a cart.  Didn't even break a sweat! 

In the afternoon we served in the temple.  It was special to officiate on the 5 pm session when Sivu accompanied Pheladi as she received her endowment.  They will be sealed on 22 March, 2013.  Sivulyule and Pheladi are a wonderful example of a young couple preparing for marriage.

March 17   We attended the Benoni Stake YSA Branch in the Daveyton building, and taught 40 YSA about critical choices:  testimony, mission service, temple marriage, and education and careers.  We were impressed with the leadership of President Hugo.

March 18  Home evening dinner at Mikes to say good-bye to the Andersons who are transferring to the Durban Mission and will serve as Member Leader Support in the Bethlehem and one other branch.  We will miss them.  Yummy place to eat.  A favorite dessert here is Malva Pudding.  It is WONDERFUL....Something to share when we get home.  

We'll love you for ever, like you for always.....DaBells

5 March 2013

What a Blessing!  The new edition of the Scriptures!

Official Declaration #2 Introduction

The Book of Mormon teaches that “all are alike unto God,” including “black and white, bond and free, male and female” (2 Nephi 26:33). Throughout the history of the Church, people of every race and ethnicity in many countries have been baptized and have lived as faithful members of the Church. During Joseph Smith’s lifetime, a few black male members of the Church were ordained to the priesthood. Early in its history, Church leaders stopped conferring the priesthood on black males of African descent. Church records offer no clear insights into the origins of this practice. Church leaders believed that a revelation from God was needed to alter this practice and prayerfully sought guidance. The revelation came to Church President Spencer W. Kimball and was affirmed to other Church leaders in the Salt Lake Temple on June 1, 1978. The revelation removed all restrictions with regard to race that once applied to the priesthood.

You cannot imagine the impact of this introduction to this wonderful continent!!!  We have seen tears of joy and thanksgiving.

Official Declaration #1 Introduction

The Bible and the Book of Mormon teach that monogamy is God’s standard for marriage unless He declares otherwise (see2 Samuel 12:7–8 and Jacob 2:27, 30). Following a revelation to Joseph Smith, the practice of plural marriage was instituted among Church members in the early 1840s (see section 132). From the 1860s to the 1880s, the United States government passed laws to make this religious practice illegal. These laws were eventually upheld by the U.S. Supreme Court. After receiving revelation, President Wilford Woodruff issued the following Manifesto, which was accepted by the Church as authoritative and binding on October 6, 1890. This led to the end of the practice of plural marriage in the Church.

February 21^st   We attended Senior Missionary Zone Conference where we were instructed by Elder and Sister Renlund.  Sister Renlund mentioned that on one occasion in Salt Lake she had lunch with Emma Lou Thayne who wrote "Where Can I Turn For Peace."  Sister Thayne  had struggles in her family with a daughter who had a mental illness.  She told Sister Renlund, all we have to share is our stories.  It is a way we can tell others about Heavenly Father’s love for all.  

Sister Renlund told of the country of Central African Republic being dedicated for missionary service.  Elder Holland dedicated the land.  There were about 100 adults and 100 children in attendance.  At a public affairs meeting that evening, Elder Holland was told, “We never thought you would come to CAR.  We didn't know you knew we were here.”  Elder Holland replied, “The Lord knows.  He sent us.”

Elder Renlund taught us much about prayer and stated he had learned more from the humble South African Saints about sincere prayer than in any other forum.   He mentioned some of the promises given to the land of Central African Republic as it was dedicated.

Another point Elder Renlund brought up, was “how do you know you will not ask amiss?”

1.          Inspiration goes into prayers.  Prayers need preparation and thought.  He mentioned the process of prayer for receiving revelation, both personal and for our church callings.

2.           Understand how answers to prayers come.  Elder Scott mentions gentle promptings, thoughts, work, struggle and then action.  Answers come one piece at a time.  Follow in faith.  Answers seldom come when you are still on your knees.

He spoke of three ways answers come to us.

1.       Feel peace, comfort, assurance

2.       Have an unsettled, stupor of thought

3.       No response

A phrase we often hear in the prayers offered here is “I am so much grateful for...”

Another is “We are thankful to be alive...”

We concluded our conference by attending the Temple together and eating a delicious dinner at Dukes Court.  Wonderful conclusion to a wonderful day!

February 22^nd   We attended a 6 am endowment session with the Employment Services group and then served as Ordinance workers in the afternoon.  That evening we attended a Scout Campfire with the Tshabalala family where we heard many favorite scout songs from our earlier days.  The Church does not use the scouting program for activities here, but there is a strong community program for scouting.

Dominic, Khumo, Minenhle, Ntando Tshabalala.  There are girls in these scout troops.  The kids are 3 of my piano students

February 24^th  We spoke in Kempton Park Ward Sacrament meeting on Self Reliance and taught the young men / young women regarding the critical decisions from age 12 to 32:  gaining a testimony, going on  a mission, marriage to the right person in the right place and planning for, training for and choosing a career.  

February 26^th   We trained the Centurion Stake Council regarding Councils, particularly regarding Welfare, Self Reliance and Employment items.  We encouraged registering on ldsjobs.org and making sure all units are well trained on councils and self reliance. 

This is FUN!  We are meeting so many wonderful people.  The teaching of things we know are true and love is very pleasant.

This is Isaac.  He washes our car at least once a week.  We pay him R100 a month which is about $12.50 American.  He is friendly and appreciates the work.

February 27-28 and March 1st   We taught 11 individuals the Career Workshop, 5 of them were from DRC and struggled with English.   BUT they did not struggle with their English nearly as much as we struggled with our French.  

They worked diligently and we gave them copies of the manual in French.  Many of their responses were in French.  One of the purposes of the class is to gain confidence in expressing who you are and what you are capable of doing....English or French.

March 2-3  We attended Benoni Stake Conference.  We were taught well by many.  Craig Omer is the Mission President of the Johannesburg Mission.  He spoke of the Doctrines of Christ.  He used one of my favorite scriptures 3 Nephi 9:13-14 

13 O all ye that are spared because ye were more righteous than they, will ye not now return unto me, and repent of your sins, and be converted, that I may heal you?

14 Yea, verily I say unto you, if ye will come unto me ye shall have eternal life. Behold, mine arm of mercy is extended towards you, and whosoever will come, him will I receive; and blessed are those who come unto me.

The choir from Kwa Thema sang a musical “item,” Brightly Beams Our Father's Mercy.  It was unaccompanied with rich “African” harmony.  It was beautiful.

Elder Renlund  spoke of  being a faithful “lower light” and having the correct perspective in life in spite of our afflictions.  He mentioned the author of the hymn “ Brightly Beams Our Father’s Mercy,” Philip Paul Bliss, who also wrote “More Holiness Give Me.”    In a treacherous harbor, there is a lighthouse with a light in the sky, but there is also a lower light along the shore.  To enter the harbor safely, one needs to align both the upper and the lower light.  Heavenly Father provides the upper light, but it is up to us to keep the lower light burning for our fellow men.  Come.  Love enough to Invite.

Elder Renlund told a story of a heart transplant patient who was in very serious condition.  A   transplant was performed, and the new heart was failing.  Another, weaker, heart became available.  Since the man was “mostly dead” anyway, the new heart was used.  Things went very well.  In just a few days, the patient was up and ready for discharge.  Elder Renlund went into visit him one morning.  He asked how things were.  The patient was irate and angry.  Upon questioning, he said, “the oatmeal isn't hot and the milk isn't cold.  Here he was alive!! And complaining about oatmeal!  For a moment he had lost perspective.  The man actually lived 18 years and died from something not cardiac related.  Lose your perspective, you lose your navigation.  Challenges and also prosperity can make you lose your perspective.

Life sometimes gives us cold oatmeal.  Keep it in perspective.  Sometimes you are given Hot oatmeal you did not work for.  Keep it in perspective.

Sunday, Sister Renlund taught about crab fishing with chicken necks.  The chicken neck is dropped into the water on a string.  The crab grabs a hold of the chicken neck, and the fisherman pulls it up.  Just before it breaks the water surface, the crab lets go.  The fisherman knows the crab will let go and has a net ready and catches the crab.  The lesson, not to hold on to things of the world like crabs hold a chicken neck until they are caught and eaten for dinner.

The new Stake Presidency is President Holmes, President Radebe, and President Braganca.

On the way home we stopped to visit the orphanage.  We gave pictures to Mama from the Savages.  Mama mentioned that God is good and He takes care of us.  She said we never know when it will be our time, but it will be all right.  I appreciate her faith.

I'm not sure where the bubblegum came from, but boy! were there giggles when this little gal found I had a picture of her bubble.

The Children are ready to have lunch.  They have a "prayer" they say altogether.  The meal was potatoes, a vegetable, and a piece of meat.  Simphewe is helping.

Monday was Elder and Sister Howes' Farewell.  They have been serving in the IT department.  Elder Howes is an excellent photographer.  It is hard to see our friends leave, but we also enjoy having new couples come here.  I guess you can’t have it both ways.

Back: Elder and Sister Howes, Elder and Sister Hatch, Elder DaBell,

Middle: Sister Mabel,Dominic's mother, Moipone and Awande, Ntando Tshabalala Sister DaBell

Front: Bokong, Minenhle and Khumo Tshabalala.  By the way, there will be a new Tshabalala!!!!

Kenya

In Nairobi, the security situation in the midst of the national polls has been relatively calm. However, there have been several instances of political violence in the Coast and Nyanza provinces. Such incidents provide a reminder of the need for personnel to avoid nonessential travel through potentially volatile locations during the period surrounding the polls.  (Relatively calm means there have only been 12 deaths Monday 4 Mar 2013 in relation to the voting day)

The Maasia people are from Kenya.  This is a man and woman that we purchased from the wood carver Benjamin Tuge.  They are made of ebony and have incredible detail.

The Shona people are from Zimbabwe  This family was carved out of iron wood by Ben also.

Until next time...........Elder and Sister DaBell